So, you want to know how to attract a man? You’ve come to the right place, we couldn’t have a site about how to get a boyfriend without teaching you how to attract a man could we? Below are some proven methods you can use to attract a man.
Present Yourself In An Attractive Manner
What you wear and how you present yourself can be a very big factor when it comes to attracting a man. If you wear clothes that remind a man of his mother, it’ll make it a whole lot harder to make him attracted to you (Unless he’s into that sort of thing). Smart and sexy is the way forward. You want your clothes to be a little bit revealing, just enough for them to see a bit of skin and want to see more. Don’t over do this revealing thing though, as reveal too much and you’ll start to attract the wrong type of guy.
Make sure you’re smelling nice too. If a guy goes out of his way to talk to you and your body odours are protruding through your clothes, chances are he’ll go out of his way to get away from you just as fast. Having daily washes (Sometimes twice daily for some people) and wearing deodorant will help keep any unwanted smells away. This may seem like an obvious point to some people, but it is not for everyone. You may also want to wear some light perfume, not too much as this is also a turn off for some men. So now you’re looking and smelling attractive, the next step is to make sure a guy notices you.
Give Him The Sign
Remember, guys are only human too. While you’re worrying about how to attract a man and getting a boyfriend, a lot of them are worrying about how to attract a girl and getting a girlfriend! Have you ever seen a guy who clearly wants to talk to someone but doesn’t end up doing it? They may be just as shy as you if not more so about getting a partner, and even if they find you attractive they may not approach you out of the fear of rejection. So how do you let a guy know it’s OK for him to come and approach you? Well, you give him a sign of course! But wait, what is the sign? A typical sign would be an acknowledgement of him. Catch his eye, and when you’re both looking at each other give him a smile. This is a classic sign you’re interested, and after one too three uses he should have no doubt you’re interested in him.
So how long do you hold the look and smile? Well, you hold the look until he’s looking back at you. When you catch his eye, smile directly at him for two to three seconds and look down / back at your friends while still smiling. Don’t worry if you get nervous and can’t hold the smile for that long, even if you pull away quickly and look nervous about staring at this guy, that’s still a good sign that you’re interested. Just make sure you get that initial bit of eye contact and he sees that smile. Do this up to three times and he should hopefully approach you. If by the second time he’s not giving you a smile back when you do this however, leave it there as he’s probably not interested.
How To Attract A Man – Approach Him
So what happens if you give him the sign three times, he smiles and looks back but he doesn’t approach you? These methods showing how to attract a man don’t work do they? Wrong, sometimes guys are just too shy to make a move. So what to do next? Well, you could always approach him… Now wait I hear you say, isn’t this lesson about how to attract a man? Yes, it is. And sometimes to attract a man you have to approach them. You done the attracting by giving him the signs and him giving you the signs back (Him smiling and watching you). But if he seems interested but hasn’t approached you yet there’s a reason. It could be that he’s shy to approach a girl, or it could be that you’re with all your friends and he wouldn’t want to talk to you and potentially embarrass himself in front of all those people. This is why you’d want to approach him.
This may seem like a hard job but remember, he’s already showed that he has some interest in you. If he’s by himself, walking up to him at a steady pace and simply saying “Hi, my name is *insert your name here*” can simply be enough to start a conversation and get things moving.
If he’s with all his friends however, you may not want to go over and talk to him alone. Here you have two options. 1, you may want to go over with a friend of two of your own. That way you can talk to him, and your friends can talk to his friends. 2, a better option may be to call him over. You may want to separate yourself from your friends (e.g. Find a separate table by yourself or stand in a open space) and next time you get eye contact with him give him a little wave. This may be a ‘come here’ wave, or a ‘hello’ wave, depending on what you feel more comfortable with. What is important is that you’re smiling when you do it and it’s not aggressive. You don’t want to make him feel like you’re summoning him, more like you’re inviting him to a better place. He may wave you over to him as a reply, and you can either go, or gently shake your head and invite him over again. If he comes over to you, you can get talking. If neither of you choose to go over to the other, you can go back to your friends and move on to the next guy.
How To Attract A Man – Flirt With Him
Just because you start talking to a guy, that doesn’t mean you don’t have to try and attract him any more. All of the previous stages where leading up to this point, sealing the deal. The previous stages were all geared at giving him a good first impression and making yourself seem attractive enough to get a dialogue going. Now you have that dialogue, the next stage is to get him to want you for you. How do you do that? Just be yourself, but be flirty with it! Not over the top flirty, but a little touch of his knee when he makes a joke (Laugh, then briefly touch his knee if you’re both sitting down) or gentle push when he saying something cheeky will instigate friendly play and make them feel more attractive and at ease with you. You want to do this too much if he doesn’t do the same back, but doing this two or three times will better let you know where you’re at.
You can also verbally flirt with him, as whether or not he does the same back this can make you seem attractive in his eyes. You don’t want to be outright rude or full on, but some cheeky banter can make you seem like a fun person and make him see you as more then just a potential friend. It’s all about tapping in to making him see you as a potential partner, come across as just another one of his friends and you’ll have a hard time turning that view around (His friends are just his friends for a reason after all).
More Flirting Tips And How To Keep His Interest In The Long Term
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